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TOTAL DISRUPTION

It’s often said that when you connect with sacred land for the first time she will often initiate you. This means that things will be given to you (or thrown at you) that will bring discomfort – and of course, lessons.

Stories of losing belongings, being mugged, missing flights, getting ill or relationships ending are just some of the stories I’ve bared witness to whilst travelling. It sounds horrible, I know, but trust me there is always a happy ending.

Guatemala with its puffing volcano’s, historic Spanish influence, beautiful lakes and ancient Mayan culture is certainly enriched with sacred land. Like magic she infused her wisdom into my being - my mind and soul was awakened (as I shared last week) with total disruption.

That was what I thought was my initiation. It was certainly uncomfortable. The questioning, the second guessing, doubt, unsettled unknowns. Alas, that was not all she had for me! Listen above how Guatemala made me angry, cry and grateful all at the same time.

 

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A BIG SHIFT

Over the past few months, much has been unfolding. Fear, love, lies, truth, calm and overwhelm. It's been a roller coaster to say the least.

I've been in deep reflection and with so much introspection I forgot to have fun. 

As an entrepreneurial on a spiritual journey I know you can relate. It's not always easy, in fact many days it's a challenge, but I would not change it for the world. Not one bit...although don't be me wrong, I have entertained other options...like opening a Dry Bar. haha... I mean c'mon imagine how good my hair would look every dang day. 

I recently did a Global Contribution Map with some close friends and mentors facilitated by Alex Iglecia (who I highly recommend you connect with) and what unfolded was deeply profound - That my purpose work is to transform Fear to Love. Ummmmmm YES and holy crap!

It's taken me a while to step in to it because I know I have to do the work to be in integrity, so I can show others the path. And sister, let me tell you the universe been testing me. She has served me many great lessons, which I am eternally grateful for. She knows I learn by experience. Not by courses, workshops, text books, theories, guru's or podcasts. Being in the thick of it is where I truly sink and swim. 

So the question is - when we are evolving and transforming ourselves how do we evolve and transform our business - with us? For example if I only identify with being a 'Branding Expert' how does that relate to being a guiding light for transforming Fear to Love?

I work with many clients that grapple with identifying themselves as one thing when they are feeling the pull of something different. The common denominator is always the same. Your truth. If you were a lawyer turned healer, an accountant turned sharman or marketing turned women's empowerment speaker. It actually doesn't matter. Because their is connection in all of your identities.

For me as a branding expert, I help you see your uniqueness. When you stand in the power of who you truly are, fear turns to love in many, many different ways. Self love, confidence, empowerment, self acceptance etc.  So as I step more fully in to my identity of 'Love Crusader' I actually don't have to dis-regard any previous identity. And either do you. In fact you shouldn't.

I'd love to hear what identity you are transforming. Email me or post in the comment, I always love hearing from you.

Love Bombs,

Tiffany

 

 

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MAKE A BIGGER DIFFERENCE

'SOULFUL CONVERSATIONS SERIES' WITH SORA AND TIFFANY - EPISODE 5

In our final episode we talk about what it means to be a 'socially conscious entrepreneur' and how to make a greater impact through your work.

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OUCH!

'SOULFUL CONVERSATIONS SERIES' WITH SORA AND TIFFANY - EPISODE 4

Learn the different ways we have 'found' healing and why we believe that personal healing is key to your business.

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SISTERHOOD

'SOULFUL CONVERSATIONS SERIES' WITH SORA AND TIFFANY - EPISODE 3

In part 3 of our 'Soulful Conversations Series' Sora Surya No and I share why Sisterhood is everything to us, what it means and how it has shaped our personal and business journey's.

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IT'S MY DAD'S FAULT

'SOULFUL CONVERSATIONS SERIES' WITH SORA AND TIFFANY - EPISODE 2

Sora and I share how travel has shaped our life and businesses and how bringing all that you love is key to your success.

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I'M SO SELFISH

'SOULFUL CONVERSATIONS SERIES' WITH SORA AND TIFFANY - EPISODE 1

In Episode 1 of our 5 part series we share why we love creating live 'experiences' and how our selfish ways paid off!

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2 MINDS ARE BETTER THAN ONE

Tiffany Scott

In fact many minds are better than one. A master of the minds is truly magical to be a part of and witness.

Last week I got witness the strength, vibrancy, vulnerability and wisdom of a collective of 27 powerful leaders at our Sister Success Live event.

I learned so much from co-creating and facilitating an experience where women could come together as individuals (and a collective) to deepen in to who they are, what their bigger vision truly is and how they can show up more fully for themselves and those they are meant to serve.

It was incredibly humbling to watch their clarity unfold, their courage shine and how they owned their truth.  

I had a vision for the Sister Success Live event 10 months ago. However I knew there was something missing. It wasn't until I met Sora Surya No that I realized that she was the missing piece.

Sora and I have been co-creating for over 6 months now and the magic keeps unfolding. As a solo-preneur I have hosted over 50+ events. To 'share the stage' with someone else has been very new to me. 

I experienced that 2 minds really are better than 1. That collaborating allows for new ideas, expansive thinking  and opens up new possibilities.

I also experienced that co-creating means welcoming new ideas, allowing expansive thinking and being open to new possibilities. I experienced that when you let go of ego, comparison and self doubt you create space for your fellow collaborator to shine in her own light, whilst knowing that it does not take away from your own.

Being an entrepreneur can feel empowering and isolating. Doing it with a partner, mentor and/or sisterhood feels empowering, invigorating, supportive and inspiring. That is why I continue to test my own boundaries of what it means to co-create with a partner, be a mentor, be mentored, live in sisterhood and forge communities.

2 are better than 1. More is better than none.

Don't do it alone. We are better together.

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I RAN AWAY

Sisterhood

Last week I ran away. I ran away to be with my girlfriends. 

I decided, phoned my sisters and said those 3 little words..."I need you." 12 hours later I was packed and on the road for my SOUL SISTER ROAD TRIP! For 7 days I visited 6 incredible women in my life. I was gifted with so much clarity, wisdom, love, nurturing, full hearts and laughter.

This is what I know about Sisterhood:

  • Women in a 'room' together grow together.
  • Sisterhood is collaboration.
  • Sisterhood is listening, acknowledging and witnessing.
  • Sisterhood is a full heart and an open mind.
  • Sisterhood is collective wisdom.
  • Sisterhood is honoring divine intuition.
  • Sisterhood is holding space.

This what I learned about Sisterhood on my Soul Sister Road Trip:

  • Women in a room together 'know' together.
  • Sisterhood is co-creation
  • Sisterhood is listening, acknowledging, witnessing and calling me on my sh*t!
  • Sisterhood is a full heart, open mind and release of judgement.
  • Sisterhood is collective wounding and healing.
  • Sisterhood is divine vulnerability.
  • Sisterhood is asking for help.

This is what I learned about me, because of the Sisters I visited:

  • I can move through my challenges with more grace, openness and clarity when I ask for help. 
  • That each time I shed my layers each woman gifted me with shinier ones.
  • When I ask for help I am strong.
  • That I don't always know best ;)
  • That I attract powerful, loving, wise women in to my life.
  • I am so blessed that each woman made it a priority to 'see' me.
  • I will now own that each woman is a reflection of me.

I wish this for every woman. I wish every woman to go on a Soul Sister Road Trip. I wish that every woman can love, cry, laugh and hurt all while being held in Sisterhood. I wish that every woman experiences Sisterhood daily.

I wish this for you. And I know that is why we are joined here.

Thank YOU.

To my Soul Sisters from my road trip - Cathy Niezen, Melissa Indot, Erin Burch, Katy Lathan, Lien Nguyen, Dawn De La Feunte - You inspire me. Thank you. I love you.

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SO TERRIFIED!

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I want to really be open with you and share with you my biggest fear. My biggest fear is being eaten by a shark and as a surfer that has always been quite a conundrum. Spending time in the ocean where sharks dwell has often brought up a lot of anxiety for me when I've been out in the ocean. Not enough to stop me from surfing all together, but enough times to get me to paddle in. This came to the surface for me again recently. In the last couple of months there's been a lot of news around the sharks coming into the shallower waters, lots of them, some of them great whites.

For a couple of weeks I did not go surfing because I was terrified. When I did actually go surfing my imagination absolutely took hold of me, and this used to happen to me a lot when I surfed in Australia. I would be in the water and I would freak myself out so much that I would have to paddle back in. I wouldn't be able to stay out there because my imagination would literally see a shark underneath me, I would see a shadow, I would visually see in my head a shark coming up and biting me.

We all have very, very vivid imaginations and it's amazing where our fear can really take us. So the last time I was in the surf that happened to me again. I was feeling the anxiety come up and I really wanted to stay in the water. It was a beautiful day and I wanted to continue surfing. If you are connected with the law of retraction you will understand when I say what you focus on expands.

So I had this reality check, "Oh my gosh, the more I focus on this the more this could actually really happen to me." My biggest fear could actually come to life. My imagination just goes wild and gets the better of me. "This could actually really happen to me. There's something that I need to do to change this, to wipe this out of my thought process," and what came into my mind was "I am safe. I am safe, I am safe. I am held. I have the universe around me to support me. My angels." I was bringing in everything that I could in that moment and I kept saying this mantra, "I am safe, I am safe, I am safe." and the more I said it, the more I settled into fully feeling safe. In that moment I really felt absolutely 150% safe.

It was like something washed over me that had never washed over me before, and it was those three simple words, "I am safe." I really, really felt it, and for the first time ever in that moment fully enjoyed the presence of where I was, I fully enjoyed being in the ocean, fully enjoyed surfing with my surfing buddy, fully enjoying the freshness of the water, fully enjoying where I was. I wasn't lingering in the thought that there may be (and there probably was) sharks underneath me.

I wanted to share that with you because it was such a profound moment for me. I deeply felt into those three words, "I am safe." Now I believe when we experience fear in our lives, whether it's fear of not having enough money or whether it's fear of death. Whatever fear that comes up for you just try the three words, "I am safe." Also, "I am held. I am protected." And call in the divinity around you,  know that you are absolutely safe, that the world, that the universe is conspiring for you, not against you. It continues to help me. I have now brought in that simple mantra for many fears. That simple mantra of "I am safe, I am held." It brings me back into my body to know that in the present moment I am absolutely safe.

The experience was so profound for me. I would love if it's profound for you too, three simple words, "I am safe." Yes! No shark's going to come and get you either.

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ENOUGH IS ENOUGH

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Hello beautiful. I'm sure like me you've been caught up in the comparison of not having enough Facebook fans, or perhaps Instagram followers, or likes. Whatever it is, we get caught up in the social media world, the marketing world, where, we're constantly told that we need more. That we need to do more, that we need to buy more, that we need to consume more, that we need to have more of an impact. Blah, blah, blah.

Well, enough is enough. You are enough and you have enough! 

So, here's what happened to me. I've been doing more Facebook lives lately and I noticed that I caught myself looking at how many people had been watching it, and when it got to 75 people I was like, "Ugh, only 75 people." And then I though, "Wait? What am I talking about? 75 people have taken the time to watch my Facebook Live. 75 people have heard my message." So what if it's not 175 people? What if it's not thousands of people? It doesn't matter. It's not about how many people, it's about the quality of people. It's about the message that I'm sharing. That even if I effect just one person, they could have a new awakening, and they could show share that share that with someone else and affect even more change. Who knows.

It's like the ripple effect, right? So, like me, how about you stop getting caught up in the comparison of needing more, of needing more followers, and needing more marketing, and needing more this or that, and know that you're exactly where you need to be. That you are enough. That you have enough, and it's not about how many people that you have liking what you have posted on Facebook, or how many fans you have, or how many followers you have, or how many people are watching and liking your Instagram. Whatever it is for you, move aside from the comparison and know that if it's just one person, that we can live in the theory of sufficiency. That less is more. That we can create more with less. That we are exactly who we need to be. That we have enough, and that we are enough. It starts with you, and then you can effect real change.

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DREAM CLIENTS - THE TRUTH

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Hello, beauties. What I want to share with you is how to find and attract your perfect client, your dream client, or otherwise known as identifying your avatar. I personally really don't like the word avatar. It feels very un-human to me, and when you're working as a service provider, you are dealing with humans. Let's face it.

I'm going to share with you how to really identify your ideal client, your dream client, and then attract that dream client. If you hold on till the end of this, I'm also going to let you in on a really amazing secret that's going to lift the veil on things that marketing people and coaches are making out to be a lot harder than what it is.

Let me go back to the principles of finding your ideal and identifying your dream client. Something that a lot of marketers use is demographics and psychographics. Demographics are basic things like where they live, what their occupation is, what their income is, their sex, how many family members, and so on, and so forth. Psychographics goes that level deeper of why they buy, what they buy, who they spend their time with and where they're spending their time.

This is really great for when you're looking at doing advertising and marketing, so you can speak to that audience very specifically. Coaches and marketing experts also share with you to understand what their pains and gains are, so you can speak to that as well.

I, myself, like to take my clients another level deeper and really get them to understand who their dream client is from the soul of who they are. I encourage you to write these next steps down and do some little writing exercises around this. Ask the following questions:

  1. What do they value?
  2. What are their values?
  3. What are their personality traits?
  4. What are their interests and passions?
  5. Where are they spending their time, and why are they spending their time there,
  6. What makes you and your perfect client click?
  7. What are their expectations of you, and
  8. What boundaries will they respect from you?
  9. Why do they want to work with you?
  10. These simple questions, writing those down, will help you get steps closer into making sure that you attract this dream client. I'll repeat them again.

Who do you really want to attract? Here's the big secret... that's not really such a secret is that your dream client, or if we have to use the word avatar, is you. Like attracts like. It's really that simple. It's really that simple. Get connected with who you are and why you do what you do, your bigger purpose.

Think about all the perfect clients that you have been attracting, the similarities that you have. Or if you're new in business, think about the clients that you really dream to have and go deeper. They really are you. They're a reflection of who you are, and they're a reflection of who you may have been a month ago, or six months ago, or a year ago. They've gone on a similar journey to you. That's why they relate to you, and that is why it's really important to share your bigger why and your story when you're talking about your brand, when you're marketing and attracting those people to work with you.

There you go. There's the big reveal. It's really not that hard. Your perfect client, is you, so go out there and start attracting her.

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